(subtitled: “…well, I’m not fussy…”!)
James’ sister, Angela, sent me this update on Tuesday morning, December 31, 2013:
‘Every few days, James has to go under anesthesia to have his bandages changed. He can’t eat for a period of time before hand. This procedure occurred two days ago, December 29th, and it went well. When he awoke, he asked for a hamburger. James indicated what he wanted on this said hamburger: ketchup, mustard, relish, cheese, pickles, onions, etc., on a whole-wheat bun. Rather rings like a MacDonald’s commercial. He finished this request with, “well I’m not fussy.” The desire to fill this request was handled by Lissa Profit, who was visiting with him at this time. She made a few stops to get everything he wanted on the hamburger. It was happy days when the hamburger was delivered. I have to tell you that when I heard he requested a hamburger after coming out of the anesthesia, it warmed my heart. Generally, he doesn’t eat that much. I was glad that he had an appetite and was able to articulate the degree of his request. You see a lack of appetite is a foreign concept in my family.
I sat with him last evening and through the night. He had visitors in the evening, cousins Barb and Fred Gavin and my mother. He was alert, participating in the conversation, and seemed happy. He sometimes experiences anxiety at nighttime. As I talked with him about his anxiety, he said,” lets play a game of cards.” Now, I know what happened when he wanted to play cards with my brother Ron. So, I swallowed my pride and got the Cribbage Board out to play. Much to my delight he said, “no lets not play Crib, lets play Crazy Eights.” I was somewhat relieved, as I felt I had a chance. So we played “Crazy Eights.”
He slept well through the night and awoke with a smile on his face, feeling refreshed. He ate a full breakfast and had requested coffee, no decaf. Oh, you were probably hoping I would tell you what happened to our card game. O.k., I guess I have to come clean and tell you, he won again. Now, he may be sick with cancer, but that is where it ends. There is nothing wrong with his card playing skills. That I can attest to that.
His wish for today is to get home to the Profit Homestead for New Year’s Day. I am really in belief that he can accomplish what ever he sets his mind to. His will to live is so very strong. His desire to be among and apart of his family during this festive time, seems to have given him a sense of focus. My conversation with him, as he was leaving on Christmas Day, was that he wanted to be home for New Years Day. I can see that this wish is going to be fulfilled.
I want to thank everyone for your kind words of encouragement, support, and love. It has meant a great deal to my family. James is aware of your messages and thus is living each day to the fullest. He wants to send out a very Happy New Year to you all. In the spirit of James, “Wishing you all a most blessed 2014 and may God be with you each and everyday.” ‘
E.E. Nobbs said:
Happy New Year Jim 🙂
Elaine
Nicole Levesqlue said:
I can’t believe you ate all that stuff on one hamburger. I can’t do that and I am also lousy at crazy 8’s because I grew up with a dad and 4 brothers who cheated their way through every card game. That’s why I entered the convent. Jim, you are amazing. One million blessings on you. Happy New Year.
Nickie
JS Hill said:
Thank you for this heart-warming New Year message.
Karen and Don said:
Happy New Year from Guelph Jim! We sent a photo of Guelph Lake to your email on Boxing Day. So glad you are able to enjoy precious moments. We are thinking of you often.
Sara-Jo said:
Dearest James – wow!! That’s some hamburger. You go. Can’t wait to hear how your time is with your family on New Year’s Day. Pat Dares and I are together, with my puppy Zephyr, for New Year’s Eve (Pat’s sick with the flu, I’m keeping her company and making her talk and cough…). We have “your” beeswax candle burning as we chat (the candle from the eco-liturgy group). We are sending so, SO much love and hope for continued card game wins, and so, SO many blessings for the turning of the year. It’s snowy and cold here. Zephyr and I will go hiking tomorrow and, as usual, I will hold you close in my heart. Pat says: so thankful to your family for keeping us updated – thank you. Thinking of you often. With much love. Pat and I are also thinking of some really fond memories of you – Pat’s speaking of her working with you at Ignatius — such a spectrum, sadness, joy, laughter, tears. I (sj) love hearing her talk of working with you, James… the energy of life that you have and share. Zephyr also sends a wag of the tail and, unfortunately, some less than pleasurable flatulence (she had stomach issues today).
Sending love.
sj, Pat, and Zeph-dog
Noreen Gavin said:
My dear James I look forward to all updates and what an encouragement you are to all the family…hamburger no less and wouldn’t I love to be there to have a game of cribbage with you.Much love and blessings are sent your way to YOU and all the family. Prayers and thoughts are always with you James. Love Noreen Gavin. .
Vicky said:
Now, I can’t help but smile with this blog. I remember when you were ‘baby-sitting’ the Mary Mother of God parish a few years back, I took you out for supper. Guess what you asked for? Hamburger! 🙂
This time, Jim, I actually believe in asking for a miracle. A good priest friend of mine in St Augustine offered a Mass for you, and at my request, also asked for a miracle of physical healing. St. Peter Faber will do the same from heaven. We can’t start till the doctors gave up, right?
Please let us know how the wound pain goes. May peace & joy be with you and your family this new year.
In loving communion,
Vicky
bridblog said:
Dear Fr James.Happy New Year, to you & your wonderful Family. Thank you so very much for keeping us updated. we are delighted to hear your good news.Our God is a God of surprises,& miracles,& I know that you are one.We will continue to pray for all of you.Thank you too,for your lovely Blessing. Pete & Bridget.
Darlene ( Profit) McIntyre said:
Dear James, we look so forward each day to your updates and encouragement!! You are truly an inspiration!!! You are in our thoughts and prayers! Happy New Year!
Darlene (Profit) McIntyre
Helen Darby said:
Wishing you and your wonderful family a very Happy New Year.
Lorraine Roy said:
I have been reading all these wonderful posts, Jim. You have a brave and remarkable family. I wish you all a beautiful, peaceful and magical New Year.
Thinking of you every day,
Lorraine
Mary Boyd said:
Dear Jim,
I’m so happy to hear that you are asking for hamburgers and food that takes a well stomach to deal with.. I’m not surprised because during my visit on Saturday I found a strength in you that was both physical and spiritual and I knew that you would have no trouble going home for New Year’s day and that you will continue to have.healing energy flow through you and wellness. I didn’t know that you liked hamburgers but a good one is hard to beat once in a while, and deep down you were probably thinking of supporting the farmers.
It was wonderful to chat to you in person and see that smile flash on your face so many times. You were clearly interested in things beyond yourself and the interior of the hospital and you were very much your old self before you got sick.
It was also wonderful to see the care that you are receiving at the PCH and the loving care you are receiving from your family members.
May the New Year be a story of healing for you Jim. May it bring you strength, healing, joy and many other Blessings. Keep playing and winning those card games
Love to you and all,
Mary Boyd
Connie Reeves-Doucette said:
Determination is obviously one of your strengths James.
You are in my prayers. Connie Reeves- Doucette
Ellen Kupp said:
Happy New Year James! We are so happy to hear of your good appetite and ability to retain a sharkish element in the card playing department. Always a good sign. And so pleased that you are reaping the benefits of being back in the loving arms of your family. Therein lies deep healing. You are so very often in our thoughts. Like SJ, I’m sitting here with your candle burning by my side as I’ve done often over the holidays. As I have been rushing about, the flame, the light and the aroma of the beeswax pulls me back to a quiet place. Blessings of healing and peace be yours in this new year, James.
Jacquie Keefe, cssf, & Bill Carrothers, cfc said:
Jim, our prayers are with you, also, for today & throughout 2014, as you celebrate New Year’s Day with your family at your Profit homestead. Blessing, peace and love! Jacquie Keefe & Bill Carrothers.
Susan Neath said:
Thank you to the James family for the wonderful updates. I do so love to hear from you. Wish James a wonderful New Year and may his strength and determination continue. Wishing you all well today.
Mary Evelyn Tucker said:
Dear Jim
Thinking of you as we move into this new year with deep gratitude for your life, your spirit, your energy, your commitment. You will always be an inspiration to me in the work ahead. A poem is attached below for you and your family.
With deepest gratitude and abundant love,
Mary Evelyn
To the New Year
BY W. S. MERWIN
With what stillness at last
you appear in the valley
your first sunlight reaching down
to touch the tips of a few
high leaves that do not stir
as though they had not noticed
and did not know you at all
then the voice of a dove calls
from far away in itself
to the hush of the morning
so this is the sound of you
here and now whether or not
anyone hears it this is
where we have come with our age
our knowledge such as it is
and our hopes such as they are
invisible before us
untouched and still possible.
Peter & Barbara Peloso said:
what a lovely poem… thanks for sharing it.
Peter & Barbara Peloso said:
Dear Jim & family,
We wish you a very happy new year!!!
It is wonderful to receive the on-going news.
Much love,
Peter & Barbara
Nancy Sullivan said:
Blessings on this first day of a brand new year Jim. I would have asked for poutine rather than hamburger but to each their own.
So glad to have the updates and you are never far from my mind and heart.
Nancy
Carol Macrae said:
Hi Jim,
Dorothy gave me an I-Pad for Christmas, and now, when I get up in the morning, I can press your blog icon, and read the latest entry from your family. Very good writing skills, like your own, seem to be a family trait! It’s wonderful to be able to read about what you are doing, such as winning at card games! Many thanks to your family for keeping all of your friends informed, and best wishes to them and to you in this, the New Year.
Lots of love, Carol
Marian Krauskopf said:
Hi Jim, hapy New Year to you and all your family members who are graced with your presence among them.
Was thinking of you this morning as I waited for liturgy to begin. I’m at Villa Angela in Chatham (ON) and know how much you had desired to be able to come and visit our new eco-friendly building.
There are more important things to be thinking about now – like hamburgers, perhaps?? 🙂
I wish you and your family peace at this time.
Marian
Nettie Wiebe said:
I wish for James a time of peace and fulfilment as he, and all the rest of us enter 2014 and live into the unknown and sometime unexpected.
Nettie Wiebe (Saskatchewan)
p.s. We would have happily supplied organic ground beef for the hamburger if only our farm was a little closer…
Dan Kraemer said:
Blessed New Year to you all!!
At this time of year I’m reminded of what it is to receive a true gift. They are the one’s we receive and remain with us forever. Jim, you are one of the truest gifts I know and will surely carry you with me forever, in all that I do. May joy continue to come everyday. I love you Jim, you’re such a beautiful man.
Peace and blessings to all,
Dan
Charlie ... Susan said:
James:
A hamburger, I think that is what you had when we had lunch together at the Pub on the Summerside Waterfront a few summers ago. It has been a great joy to share meals with you and the regular dinner each summer at Marie Burge’s Home.
Stay strong my friend. May Our God who is compassionate, caring and loving and healing walk with you on your journey. You are in our prayers daily. Our positive thoughts to the Profit Family and blessing for the New Year.
In love and peace;
Charlie and Susan
RaeAnn Jimmy and Ben said:
Hello Father Jim,
Just loved the hamburger story, you made us laugh here!! A very blessed and happy new year to you and your family as well. Thank you to your family for the updates we receive here and keeping us privy to all that is taking place. we think of you everyday, and keep you in our prayers. The last time you and I (RaeAnn) had lunch together, I told you we were not giving up on you, this remains true for us here. We remain optimistic, and pray to our lady, to ask her son, our lord, to fully restore your health.
Love
RaeAnn Jimmy and Ben
Madis Jurima said:
Although we continue to pray for a major miracle, maybe we should be thankful for the small miracles, such as Jim being able to enjoy a hamburger and to play cards with his brother and sister. I suppose that is what Angela means by giving that post the title “living each day to the fullest” It is something we all should try to do, but so often forget in our everyday worries and concerns.
May 2014 bring many more small miracles for the Profit family, as we continue to pray for a greater miracle.
Diane Baltaz said:
Please add my prayers and greetings to Jim, Kaye et al as well. Jim, I think of you a lot. There is a blizzard warning (???!) for Guelph and K-W but the sun was out here in Paris, Brant County an hour ago, and little of the snow that north of 401 got. I am sure that you, Jim, would appreciate the beauty of the local landscape, albeit a windchill warning.
Thank you Profits for updating the blog so well,
Diane Baltaz